’Til Porn Do Us Part

’Til Porn Do Us Part

As adult websites have proliferated, so too have users. Today, billions of people view pornographic material online, from videos to live sex cams. In a recent survey, over 80% of Millenials said they watch online porn. With so many people now visiting sex sites, it’s no surprise the issue is coming up when marriages dissolve. 

As adult websites have proliferated, so too have users. Today, billions of people view pornographic material online, from videos to live sex cams. In a recent survey, over 80% of Millenials said they watch online porn. With so many people now visiting sex sites, it’s no surprise the issue is coming up when marriages dissolve. 

In a survey of lawyers, pornography was cited as a significant factor in over 56% of US divorce cases. That was way back in 2000. We can only guess at how high that number has climbed today — upwards of 75% by most estimates. 

In a survey of lawyers, pornography was cited as a significant factor in over 56% of US divorce cases. That was way back in 2000. We can only guess at how high that number has climbed today — upwards of 75% by most estimates. 

That’s a massive number of divorce cases with porn playing a role. And while porn is increasingly named as a factor in breakups, that’s not the alarming part of the issue. What’s troubling — even downright terrifying — is that porn use is now a critical factor in determining alimony and child custody/visitation rights. And we’re not just talking about porn addicts who spend 14 hours a day on sex sites, or those who view illegal, violent, or extreme adult content. Judges are increasingly bringing the hammer down hard on anyone who looks at porn — even the regular mainstream stuff, even if only occasionally. 

That’s a massive number of divorce cases with porn playing a role. And while porn is increasingly named as a factor in breakups, that’s not the alarming part of the issue. What’s troubling — even downright terrifying — is that porn use is now a critical factor in determining alimony and child custody/visitation rights. And we’re not just talking about porn addicts who spend 14 hours a day on sex sites, or those who view illegal, violent, or extreme adult content. Judges are increasingly bringing the hammer down hard on anyone who looks at porn — even the regular mainstream stuff, even if only occasionally. 

“This is a huge issue,” said Marc Spencer of Kissinger, Thomas, Spencer & Goldman, LLP, a prominent family law practice in New York. “We’re actually seeing pornography usage come up in a majority of cases now. Basically, if you look at porn — and your spouse can prove it — be prepared for it to be an issue in [divorce] court.”

“This is a huge issue,” said Marc Spencer of Kissinger, Thomas, Spencer & Goldman, LLP, a prominent family law practice in New York. “We’re actually seeing pornography usage come up in a majority of cases now. Basically, if you look at porn — and your spouse can prove it — be prepared for it to be an issue in [divorce] court.”

Indeed, simply watching mainstream pornography has become equivalent with real-world cheating (never mind engaging in live webcam sex with a real person). There are even a slew of new terms being used: virtual infidelity, online adultery, cyber affair, and online extramarital sexual activity. Even in states with “no fault” divorces, judges consider fidelity when ruling on alimony payments, and virtual infidelity is treated the same as a physical affair.

Indeed, simply watching mainstream pornography has become equivalent with real-world cheating (never mind engaging in live webcam sex with a real person). There are even a slew of new terms being used: virtual infidelity, online adultery, cyber affair, and online extramarital sexual activity. Even in states with “no fault” divorces, judges consider fidelity when ruling on alimony payments, and virtual infidelity is treated the same as a physical affair.

While this has left many people (usually men) financial broken, the courts’ decisions on child custody rights are downright devastating.

While this has left many people (usually men) financial broken, the courts’ decisions on child custody rights are downright devastating.

Pornography and Child Custody

Pornography and Child Custody

Child custody and visitation rights are assessed in court with the “best interests of the child” test. This leaves family court judges room to consider a wide host of issues, including those related to a spouse’s viewing of pornography. And consider it they do. Child custody evaluators are now instructed to assess the impact of pornography usage on child custody and visitation determinations. 

Child custody and visitation rights are assessed in court with the “best interests of the child” test. This leaves family court judges room to consider a wide host of issues, including those related to a spouse’s viewing of pornography. And consider it they do. Child custody evaluators are now instructed to assess the impact of pornography usage on child custody and visitation determinations. 

There are a number of ways courts use pornography consumption to justify limiting child custody and visitation. They may say porn usage is evidence of a "poor moral character,” and thereby opt to place children with the more “upstanding” parent. Or, courts may bring a judgement of compulsive sexual behavior. Another tactic is to insist that children will be exposed to pornographic material as a result of their parent viewing it in the home. 

There are a number of ways courts use pornography consumption to justify limiting child custody and visitation. They may say porn usage is evidence of a "poor moral character,” and thereby opt to place children with the more “upstanding” parent. Or, courts may bring a judgement of compulsive sexual behavior. Another tactic is to insist that children will be exposed to pornographic material as a result of their parent viewing it in the home. 

Whatever the reason(s) given, the truth is judges are free to use their discretion when determining a parent’s right to have custody of, or even visit, their children. And more and more judges are ruling against parents who look at online porn. 

Whatever the reason(s) given, the truth is judges are free to use their discretion when determining a parent’s right to have custody of, or even visit, their children. And more and more judges are ruling against parents who look at online porn. 

“We’re seeing a climate of unfriendliness, even borderline hostility, towards parents with a proven history of using pornography,” said Spencer. “The so-called moral character judgement is basically a sledgehammer. They can bring that down on anyone, and there’s no defense that will change a judge’s mind.”

“We’re seeing a climate of unfriendliness, even borderline hostility, towards parents with a proven history of using pornography,” said Spencer. “The so-called moral character judgement is basically a sledgehammer. They can bring that down on anyone, and there’s no defense that will change a judge’s mind.”

“She Got Everything”

“She Got Everything”

That’s exactly what happened to Chris Watkins. The sledgehammer came down hard. The experience was harrowing, all the more so because he never saw it coming.

That’s exactly what happened to Chris Watkins. The sledgehammer came down hard. The experience was harrowing, all the more so because he never saw it coming.

“I was just blindsided by the whole pornography issue,” he said. “I had no idea my wife would bring that up in court — let alone that it would be used against me so harshly. I mean, I wasn’t an addict or a weirdo. I didn’t do anything every guy I know doesn’t do.”

“I was just blindsided by the whole pornography issue,” he said. “I had no idea my wife would bring that up in court — let alone that it would be used against me so harshly. I mean, I wasn’t an addict or a weirdo. I didn’t do anything every guy I know doesn’t do.”

Nonetheless, Watkins’ wife entered his browsing history into evidence with the court. Even though he hid it on his devices, his wife asked his internet service provider (ISP) and mobile carrier for his browsing records, which they readily handed over. The court then had a complete list of all the adult sites Watkins had ever visited — as well as how often, for how long, and even which specific videos he’d watched.

Nonetheless, Watkins’ wife entered his browsing history into evidence with the court. Even though he hid it on his devices, his wife asked his internet service provider (ISP) and mobile carrier for his browsing records, which they readily handed over. The court then had a complete list of all the adult sites Watkins had ever visited — as well as how often, for how long, and even which specific videos he’d watched.

Even though none of the content Watkins consumed was illegal, or even outside what’s considered mainstream porn, and he only spent an hour or two a week on adult sites, the courts pursued the issue. Child custody evaluators reviewed his porn habit and asked him a long list of questions about his sexual behaviors online. In the end, the judge decided that Watkins’ pornography usage constituted virtual infidelity, and that his moral character was a bad influence on his children. 

Even though none of the content Watkins consumed was illegal, or even outside what’s considered mainstream porn, and he only spent an hour or two a week on adult sites, the courts pursued the issue. Child custody evaluators reviewed his porn habit and asked him a long list of questions about his sexual behaviors online. In the end, the judge decided that Watkins’ pornography usage constituted virtual infidelity, and that his moral character was a bad influence on his children. 

“She got everything,” Watkins said. “It was shocking, devastating, humiliating… A living nightmare. To have things revealed about you like that, things you thought were private… that was horrible. And the financial blow was enormous. But nothing compares to having my kids taken away from me. For what? Because I watched a few videos? It’s just not right.” 

“She got everything,” Watkins said. “It was shocking, devastating, humiliating… A living nightmare. To have things revealed about you like that, things you thought were private… that was horrible. And the financial blow was enormous. But nothing compares to having my kids taken away from me. For what? Because I watched a few videos? It’s just not right.” 

Unfortunately, what happened to Watkins isn’t unusual. That’s why he wants his story heard — so he can help others to avoid the same fate. Turns out, doing so is very easy.

Unfortunately, what happened to Watkins isn’t unusual. That’s why he wants his story heard — so he can help others to avoid the same fate. Turns out, doing so is very easy.

The Simple Way To Keep Porn Use Private — And Out Of Court

The Simple Way To Keep Porn Use Private — And Out Of Court

The consequences of having one’s porn habit revealed in court are catastrophic. But preventing such an outcome is actually very easy.

The consequences of having one’s porn habit revealed in court are catastrophic. But preventing such an outcome is actually very easy.

“It all comes down to proof,” said attorney Marc Spencer, “You can’t be penalized for something if there’s no proof you did it.”

“It all comes down to proof,” said attorney Marc Spencer, “You can’t be penalized for something if there’s no proof you did it.”

How is porn use proven in court? Well, if the accused was careless enough to leave their browsing history on their phone or computer, that’s one way. But even clearing one’s browser history is no defense. As in Watkins’ case, all it takes is a simple request or subpoena to a person’s ISP (internet service provider) and/or mobile carrier. Communications companies track and monitor the websites their customers visit, and keep meticulous data logs. Companies are even legally allowed to share or sell this data to whoever they want. Customers are tracked based on their IP address, which is like unique digital fingerprint. Everyone with an exposed IP address is being tracked and monitored by their ISP/data carrier. So all an aggrieved spouse needs to do is get her husband’s browsing history, and the court will have a detailed list of all the sex sites he’s visited, when, and for how long.

How is porn use proven in court? Well, if the accused was careless enough to leave their browsing history on their phone or computer, that’s one way. But even clearing one’s browser history is no defense. As in Watkins’ case, all it takes is a simple request or subpoena to a person’s ISP (internet service provider) and/or mobile carrier. Communications companies track and monitor the websites their customers visit, and keep meticulous data logs. Companies are even legally allowed to share or sell this data to whoever they want. Customers are tracked based on their IP address, which is like unique digital fingerprint. Everyone with an exposed IP address is being tracked and monitored by their ISP/data carrier. So all an aggrieved spouse needs to do is get her husband’s browsing history, and the court will have a detailed list of all the sex sites he’s visited, when, and for how long.

But as easy as it is to prove porn use, it’s even easier to hide it. All it takes is a VPN (virtual privacy network).

But as easy as it is to prove porn use, it’s even easier to hide it. All it takes is a VPN (virtual privacy network).

A VPN is a simple online privacy and security tool. Using a VPN turns the user into a digital ghost — keeping their internet activities 100% hidden from ISPs, the government, spouses, and everyone else. 

A VPN is a simple online privacy and security tool. Using a VPN turns the user into a digital ghost — keeping their internet activities 100% hidden from ISPs, the government, spouses, and everyone else. 

VPNs work by encrypting a user’s internet connection. Instead of hitting an ISP’s servers, the user’s connection goes through their VPN provider’s private, encrypted servers. All personal information is stripped out, making the user anonymous online. A VPN erases the user’s IP address, making them impossible to identify.

VPNs work by encrypting a user’s internet connection. Instead of hitting an ISP’s servers, the user’s connection goes through their VPN provider’s private, encrypted servers. All personal information is stripped out, making the user anonymous online. A VPN erases the user’s IP address, making them impossible to identify.

“Using a VPN is virtually foolproof protection against seeing pornography usage come up in court,” said Spencer. “Anyone who’s married should use one.”

“Using a VPN is virtually foolproof protection against seeing pornography usage come up in court,” said Spencer. “Anyone who’s married should use one.”

Chris Watkins couldn’t agree more. “When I think of how easy it would’ve been to prevent all this by just using a VPN… it makes me sick,” he said. 

Chris Watkins couldn’t agree more. “When I think of how easy it would’ve been to prevent all this by just using a VPN… it makes me sick,” he said. 

VPNs are the weapon of choice against all manner of internet threats — including hackers, malware, identity thieves, and spies of many kinds. The technology is extremely advanced, but the good VPNs are now so easy to use anyone can do it. 

VPNs are the weapon of choice against all manner of internet threats — including hackers, malware, identity thieves, and spies of many kinds. The technology is extremely advanced, but the good VPNs are now so easy to use anyone can do it. 

However, not all VPNs are created equal. As with all popular products, brands come along that cut corners in an effort to scoop up a market share. (Surprisingly, a brief look at PornHub’s VPN service, VPNHub, reveals sub-standard privacy measures and lots of unhappy customers.) So it’s important to use a VPN with a trusted reputation and high ratings. Otherwise, you may think you’re staying private, only to find that your VPN fails you.

However, not all VPNs are created equal. As with all popular products, brands come along that cut corners in an effort to scoop up a market share. (Surprisingly, a brief look at PornHub’s VPN service, VPNHub, reveals sub-standard privacy measures and lots of unhappy customers.) So it’s important to use a VPN with a trusted reputation and high ratings. Otherwise, you may think you’re staying private, only to find that your VPN fails you.

One of the most respected and popular VPNs out there is NordVPN. A PC Magazine Editor’s Choice for over 5 years in a row, and similarly recommended by numerous other consumer groups, NordVPN prides itself on being the most private and secure VPN in existence. 

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“Using a VPN is virtually foolproof protection against seeing pornography usage come up in court,” said Spencer. “Anyone who’s married should use one.”

“Using a VPN is virtually foolproof protection against seeing pornography usage come up in court,” said Spencer. “Anyone who’s married should use one.”

“NordVPN uses military-grade encryption and a suite of other proprietary privacy and security features,” said Gin Plev of NordVPN. “We are here to protect our users, and we are very, very good at it.” 

“NordVPN uses military-grade encryption and a suite of other proprietary privacy and security features,” said Gin Plev of NordVPN. “We are here to protect our users, and we are very, very good at it.” 

NordVPN is also a “set it and forget it” VPN, making it extremely easy to use. Just download the app, turn it on, and use the web as usual. That makes it a great choice for just about everyone. 

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Search Engine Of Love co-founder Alex White agrees. “We review VPNs for quality and performance standards, and NordVPN comes out on top every year,” White said. “I use it myself every time I use the internet.”

Search Engine Of Love co-founder Alex White agrees. “We review VPNs for quality and performance standards, and NordVPN comes out on top every year,” White said. “I use it myself every time I use the internet.”

As for Watkins, he’s currently trying to appeal the judge’s child custody ruling. So far, however, things haven’t gone his way. 

As for Watkins, he’s currently trying to appeal the judge’s child custody ruling. So far, however, things haven’t gone his way. 

“I know it’s a long-shot the decision will be reversed,” he said. “Now that they know I looked at porn, well, that cat isn’t going back in the bag. So I try to focus on helping others. I want to tell as many people as I can about this, so they can protect themselves and prevent it. Nobody wants to end up like me.”

“I know it’s a long-shot the decision will be reversed,” he said. “Now that they know I looked at porn, well, that cat isn’t going back in the bag. So I try to focus on helping others. I want to tell as many people as I can about this, so they can protect themselves and prevent it. Nobody wants to end up like me.”

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Visiting adult websites is now a huge liability in divorce and child custody cases — despite the fact that few people know the extent of the risks

Visiting adult websites is now a huge liability in divorce and child custody cases — despite the fact that few people know the extent of the risks

{This article originally appeared in “The Philadelphia Post”}

{This article originally appeared in “The Philadelphia Post”}

Chris Watkins had been married for 9 years when things started to go south. Feeling increasingly lonely and frustrated, Chris didn’t go out and have an affair the way lots of people do. Instead, he started visiting pornography websites to relieve some stress and find some solace. 

Chris Watkins had been married for 9 years when things started to go south. Feeling increasingly lonely and frustrated, Chris didn’t go out and have an affair the way lots of people do. Instead, he started visiting pornography websites to relieve some stress and find some solace. 

Chris had no idea what a world of hurt he was in for as a result. Like so many people, he didn’t know how pornography could be used against him in his upcoming divorce, and his fight to see his kids. But he was about to find out.

Chris had no idea what a world of hurt he was in for as a result. Like so many people, he didn’t know how pornography could be used against him in his upcoming divorce, and his fight to see his kids. But he was about to find out.

Courts now penalize people who look at porn when deciding alimony and child custody. But a simple tool can keep online activities private.

Courts now penalize people who look at porn when deciding alimony and child custody. But a simple tool can keep online activities private.

"Porn use is now a critical factor in alimony and child custody rulings."

"Porn use is now a critical factor in alimony and child custody rulings."

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